Showing posts with label interracial. Show all posts
Showing posts with label interracial. Show all posts

Thursday, January 17, 2008

Ebony and...


Am I the only person who has not dated interacially? My sister has, most of my friends have, my brother is currently in an interracial relationship...so why not me? The hard, cold truth is that I'm scared! I know, how insane is that?


It's not that I've never found guys outside of my race attractive - not at ALL the case (as a matter of fact, I met a really great guy last weekend who's interested in me). I guess because my dad, brothers, male cousins and most of my male friends look like me and come from similar backgrounds as mine, I have more experience with - and therefore feel more comfortable relating - to men in those categories.


Part of my personal plan for 2008, is to break the monotony: do things I've never done before and that I've always wanted to do. Dating outside of my norm is one of those things. But why do I feel so nervous? Is this normal?


Help! Have you dated interacially before? Were you as nervous about it as I am? Be honest with me..I'm a big girl, I can take it!


P.S. - If you don't approve of interracial dating, please reserve your comments for like-minded people. In other words, walk on!